Natural Hair Pet Peeve: Hat Hair

I can't stand my hair sticking out like that!

One thing I can't stand about my hair at the moment is that it looks crazy in a cap. I can't. Do you see the sides? This is the only time I hate my shrinkage. I can't stand looking at it. If my hair can't fit under a cap, I don't want to see it under a winter hat. Oh gosh!